When clubbing on saturday night a guy approached one of my friends and started having a chat. He continued to stand around for a while and joined in when we went over to the dancefloor. He started to get pretty close to my friend and she backed off a little, when he asked what was wrong she responded saying:
"sorry, I've got a boyfriend"
"where is he?"
"at home"
"exactly, so... whats the problem?"
She looked over at me, we laughed and walked away.
It may or may not surprise you to hear, this is certainly NOT the first time this has happened to one of the girls when we've been out without the boys. But this certain incident prompted me to ask, whatever happened to loyalty? Since when does a night out without your other half make them non existant? What makes boys think that the absence of a girls boyfriend on a night out means they're going to forget about them altogether?
Do these boys too have girlfriends that are sitting at home thinking their man is just having a quiet one with the boys? Or are they just single guys who think relationships are stupid and all the pretty girls should just be single and have fun with them?
I never have and never will understand the "logic" of these stupid guys who think its okay to hit on other guys girlfriends and cheat on their own.
And a note to my boy...
Just cause your not always out with me, doesn't mean I'm going to forget how special you are.
I think they're of the opinion that girls should be promiscuous as they are...or maybe he just wanted to dance? :P
ReplyDeletei can assure you that guy had alot more than dancing on his mind
ReplyDeleteI hate those types of dudes, a similar thing happened to me, we were at a bar called the Q bar on oxford street. There is a massive flight of stairs to get up to it, and my best friend, her boyfriend and I were walking down them, to leave. Her boyfriend was infront and then i was behind her, and as this random dude walked past us he whispered in my best friends ear, "you're cute" in this kind of, try hard seductive tone. And it was like WTF? Man its was so creepy and yuck. Me and her boyfriend were even with her, and this guy still said something. I swear these dudes are pumped up on viagra that they only ever think with their dick.
ReplyDeleteI hate those types of domanant male, monkey, mofo's.
Is that a woman's intuition speaking? :P
ReplyDeleteAnd I would have to concede that young males very often have more then dancing on their minds.